Archive for May, 2008

How to Find Your Calling

In this little visualization exercise, you’ll explore an idealistic hypothetical situation, which will free your mind from the grinds of daily life and the reality of having to earn a living, to explore what you really want to spend your life doing. It will get you started down the path of finding and pursuing [...]

Blog Carnival: Improving Life

My blog entry, “Realizing Your Potential in a World Not Built for It” was included in the Carnival of Improving Life by ImprovedLife.ca. I am looking forward to checking out the great insights and information shared in this collection of blog entries. If you’re hungry for inspiring or thought-provoking read, I recommend you [...]

Happiness Lies in Unchained Emotions

I just learned that happiness doesn’t necessarily mean feeling happy.
Don’t get me wrong, if you’re feeling happy, then you are happy. Be happy! Celebrate!
But you may be experiencing other types of emotions, and still feel “happy.” Perhaps the word “happiness” is problematic here. You can be “joyful,” “content,” or “satisfied” without [...]

Decision-Making while Dealing with Mutliple Selves

We make decisions constantly, including decisions to not to make decisions and postponing. We often fail to make the best decisions because we don’t pay attention to our state of mind, and how it affects our perceptions and decision-making process.
There are several versions of you in there. Which one are you, right [...]

Realizing Your Potential in a Society Not Built for It

Many people believe that they are not what they can be.
While this feeling persists over the course of their lives, it’s hard to know why and how you feel that way.  Sometimes, you don’t even know where to begin.
Well, there are multitude of reasons why you are not who you are meant to be.  But [...]

Suffering of the Quiet

One of my cats died last week. Her name was Dax (we’re Trekkies) — 11-years-old, a tiny female. She was a very quiet cat, hardly ever meowed.
To us, cats were children-substitutes. So when real children started arriving, our cats became more neglected. Our other cat, Jean-Luc, is a big, burly and [...]

Budget Hero: A Glimpse of the Big Picture

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I’m usually not one for silly online games (useless distraction, anyone?) but this one got me so excited that I had to share. Plus, it does tie in nicely with this site’s mission to empower each individual to realize his/her potential.
By influencing the government to [...]

The Most Important Voice

I just unsubscribed from many mailing lists and RSS feeds. It was starting to really clatter up my mind.
There is a lot of useful information out there. Except most of them are more distracting than helpful. Even the things that are “good to know” — when I think of how often such [...]

The Dream Manager

My wife found this book on the new book shelf of our local library. As she does with all other books, she read it very fast, handed it to me and said “you should read it.”
You know, my wife is never wrong with things like that.
The Dream Manager is a story (written by Matthew [...]

The Formula Fails

It’s remarkable how we predict future based on the past, when they are not as related as it may seem.
All right, if you smell smoke, do assume there’s a fire — but we extend that assumption to far too many things.
For example, a job search.  If you’ve been struggling long and hard to get employed [...]