Comments on: How to Tell If the Person You’re Seeing Is Your Soulmate

By: Moon

Moon — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 17:53:35 +0000

I read the article. actually I liked it because its so practical and easy to grasp with – and yet I feel funny though that it was able to really hit the spot. I am currently separated with my Indian husband because he threw me away. It was may 31, 2011 when he said that couples who could not gel should not be together. Though I know that the culture was so different and far apart, I still continued on. I think the two points are important, and yet the focus on family should be given emphasis as well. Because we have to face facts, before meeting the partner – he or she has already incorporated his or her family within him or her…and its true what the article says, how his parents treated each other is projected on how he treated me. My ex-husband’s father and mother were not in good terms. Actually as what I was told, his parents had a big fight over his father’s relatives. So his family had a great fight against his father for 8 years. My husband was able to ignore his father for 8 years until the father died. He ignored his father for his mother because he defended his mother. And when we got married, being a big Mama’s boy…he defended his mother as well. Its really true that when you are with the person, you get to see who they are. And it was awful. I have never seen a mother allow her adult son use a metal bowl to hit his head so that she could just stop shouting at me and him, complaining that I used the wrong bowl to make tea with. And the allegation that her mother maltreated his father’s niece became clear to me – that she might have really done it because what I experienced was really derogatory of being a daughter-in-law. Anyway, I am happy that I am separated now. And the article is also right, the right choices are the scariest ones because you need to face the truth – and the truth may be right but its not always a happy choice. I want a divorce – because I know that my life should not be wasted with a man who is not my soulmate. I was never myself with him. I was always trapped to follow his standards – comparing me to his mother, to his sister in law and worse to his ex-girlfriend and even to the sister of his ex-girlfriend which is really creepy. Well, my heart is healing itself for the right guy to actually accept the right kind of love I am willing to give.

By: dimples

dimples — Thu, 01 Sep 2011 20:05:43 +0000

I found my soul mate, but I think he might have gotten away. I am married, but not to my soul mate. I don’t know what to do. I can’t stop crying cause i know I don’t have him! I don’t know how to get him back or if I should try, cause he isn’t who I married. I know it isn’t good to be looking at others if you are married, but it just happened.

By: sss

sss — Tue, 17 May 2011 02:40:50 +0000

‘but i can see that was interested in me’ and the way he looked at me was something different ughhhh HELP

By: sss

sss — Tue, 17 May 2011 02:38:03 +0000

i met this guy few days ago,idk why… felt like he is my soulmate, it was most strong feeling ive ever felt in my life. i really wanted to see him again but the problem is he just started dating with my gf, but i can that he interested in me…. what should i do?? plzz help me…

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