Comments on: Indecisive? The Hidden Truth That Makes Deciding Easier

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[...] a Recovering DoorMat. Daylle presents a good primer on how to overcome indecisiveness. I’ve written on the subject myself, so I can very much relate to what she’s saying here. You’ll see that her take [...]

By: Ari Koinuma

Ari Koinuma — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 04:08:16 +0000

Hi Everlyn.

Welcome to OBV! Yes, stress of decision-making is all self-inflicted. It’s understandable, and not all stress are bad — but most of it is unnecessary.

However, being indecisive is always stressful, in a bad way. Deciding not to decide is not the same thing. Being indecisive happens when you’re paralyzed by your fear. I’ve been there, it’s not fun.

ari

By: Evelyn Lim | Attraction Mind Map

Evelyn Lim | Attraction Mind Map — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 03:46:51 +0000

As you’ve pointed out, stress can cripple us in decision making. I’ve come to the realisation that most of my stress is self induced. Often enough, there are no reasons why I should be pressurized.

Evelyn

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By: Ari Koinuma

Ari Koinuma — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 13:26:15 +0000

Hey Avani –

Thanks! And thanks for the great article. I had been meaning to write on decision-making myself, but when I read your post, I was inspired to write my own take on the issue. It’s cool how our entries compliment each other.

ari

By: Avani-Mehta

Avani-Mehta — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 01:37:34 +0000

“Do some exploring and develop a decision-making process that suits you, that you feel good about. And have confidence and faith that good things will come out of all your decisions. ” - You hit the nail with these two sentences.

Thanks for the link love.