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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/path-over-destination-a-little-known-secret-to-satisfying-life/comment-page-1/#comment-762</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 15:51:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Christopher,

Really?  I'd love to hear your music, if you have it up anywhere.  My music, you can find at &lt;a href="http://aries9.com" rel="nofollow"&gt;Aries9.com&lt;/a&gt;.   Hopefully in the near future, I'll make a lot more music.  Here's my &lt;a href="http://arikoinuma.com/my-business-plan/" rel="nofollow"&gt;business plan&lt;/a&gt;.

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Christopher,</p>
<p>Really?  I&#8217;d love to hear your music, if you have it up anywhere.  My music, you can find at <a href="http://aries9.com" rel="nofollow">Aries9.com</a>.   Hopefully in the near future, I&#8217;ll make a lot more music.  Here&#8217;s my <a href="http://arikoinuma.com/my-business-plan/" rel="nofollow">business plan</a>.</p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Christopher Perilli</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/path-over-destination-a-little-known-secret-to-satisfying-life/comment-page-1/#comment-755</link>
		<dc:creator>Christopher Perilli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 20:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ari,

Thats amazing!I didn't mention I also run a small production studio in Brooklyn NYC. (been producing music since im 14, play guitar, play key's well. i guess if you want to call it playing keys more like mashing them..lol) so if you ever have any questions or want to chat hit us up over at yinvsyang. I love music (art music go hand in hand) Been using everything from old cubase, to reason, to mpc AKai hardware, most recently we print to protools. Would love to chat about it.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Christopher Perilli&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href="http://yinvsyang.com/want-to-be-successful-think-like-a-cagefighter/308/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Want to be Successful? Think Like A Cagefighter&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ari,</p>
<p>Thats amazing!I didn&#8217;t mention I also run a small production studio in Brooklyn NYC. (been producing music since im 14, play guitar, play key&#8217;s well. i guess if you want to call it playing keys more like mashing them..lol) so if you ever have any questions or want to chat hit us up over at yinvsyang. I love music (art music go hand in hand) Been using everything from old cubase, to reason, to mpc AKai hardware, most recently we print to protools. Would love to chat about it.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Christopher Perilli&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://yinvsyang.com/want-to-be-successful-think-like-a-cagefighter/308/" rel="nofollow">Want to be Successful? Think Like A Cagefighter</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/path-over-destination-a-little-known-secret-to-satisfying-life/comment-page-1/#comment-754</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 15:20:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Christopher!

Welcome to OBV!  Thanks for sharing your story -- it's inspiring to hear how you turned a tragic occasion into a positive turning point.  I can totally relate to what you're doing with your art -- I can do the same thing with music.  ;-)  I spend hours programming drums to my songs, moving a beat a split second ahead or behind, listening over and over, seeing how it feels to me.  :-)  

I hope I'll make the transition you made, soon.  :-)

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Christopher!</p>
<p>Welcome to OBV!  Thanks for sharing your story &#8212; it&#8217;s inspiring to hear how you turned a tragic occasion into a positive turning point.  I can totally relate to what you&#8217;re doing with your art &#8212; I can do the same thing with music.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  I spend hours programming drums to my songs, moving a beat a split second ahead or behind, listening over and over, seeing how it feels to me.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>I hope I&#8217;ll make the transition you made, soon.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
ari</p>
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		<title>By: Christopher Perilli</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/path-over-destination-a-little-known-secret-to-satisfying-life/comment-page-1/#comment-747</link>
		<dc:creator>Christopher Perilli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2008 06:32:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree sincerely. I worked on wall street for 10 years, before 9/11 attacks in NYC, I worked my entire time dreading each morning getting up and getting on the train. I hated being on a train in 90 degree weather with a suit and tie on. Couldn't stand the long drawn out mundane day sitting directly in front of a clock. Watching it tick, tick, tick. 

9/11 attacks left me and many without jobs in the financial sector. Besides what was I doing in the financial sector? I was an artist since I was 5. This horrific time in many lives had some positive effects as any tragedy and the overcoming of it can. It permitted me to seek a career in graphic design, in which I succesfully run a thriving business along with a partner. There are still like any business some bumps in the road. But honestly my life is 100 times better doing something i love to do. There are times i just create "stuff" for no reason. So work isn't really a job. Its probably why it also permits me to sit at a computer sometimes 15 hours straight into the wee hours moving an imagine millimeters left and right for 2 hours! ;-)

Awesome Post Ari! I really like the blog.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Christopher Perilli&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href="http://yinvsyang.com/want-to-be-successful-think-like-a-cagefighter/308/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Want to be Successful? Think Like A Cagefighter&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree sincerely. I worked on wall street for 10 years, before 9/11 attacks in NYC, I worked my entire time dreading each morning getting up and getting on the train. I hated being on a train in 90 degree weather with a suit and tie on. Couldn&#8217;t stand the long drawn out mundane day sitting directly in front of a clock. Watching it tick, tick, tick. </p>
<p>9/11 attacks left me and many without jobs in the financial sector. Besides what was I doing in the financial sector? I was an artist since I was 5. This horrific time in many lives had some positive effects as any tragedy and the overcoming of it can. It permitted me to seek a career in graphic design, in which I succesfully run a thriving business along with a partner. There are still like any business some bumps in the road. But honestly my life is 100 times better doing something i love to do. There are times i just create &#8220;stuff&#8221; for no reason. So work isn&#8217;t really a job. Its probably why it also permits me to sit at a computer sometimes 15 hours straight into the wee hours moving an imagine millimeters left and right for 2 hours! <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Awesome Post Ari! I really like the blog.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Christopher Perilli&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://yinvsyang.com/want-to-be-successful-think-like-a-cagefighter/308/" rel="nofollow">Want to be Successful? Think Like A Cagefighter</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/path-over-destination-a-little-known-secret-to-satisfying-life/comment-page-1/#comment-310</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 01:39:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi CG!

Welcome to OBV!  To add to your comment, I think all activities demand something from us.  We have to invest a piece of ourselves into every action.  But only some of the activities have the qualities that give back more than what we give it.  So we need to keep an eye out for which activities are life-sucking and which are life-giving.  

Thanks for the comment!  I look forward to getting to know you. 

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi CG!</p>
<p>Welcome to OBV!  To add to your comment, I think all activities demand something from us.  We have to invest a piece of ourselves into every action.  But only some of the activities have the qualities that give back more than what we give it.  So we need to keep an eye out for which activities are life-sucking and which are life-giving.  </p>
<p>Thanks for the comment!  I look forward to getting to know you. </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: CG Walters</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/path-over-destination-a-little-known-secret-to-satisfying-life/comment-page-1/#comment-304</link>
		<dc:creator>CG Walters</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 15:08:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great work, Ari! 
I completely agree. There are three types of activity: 1) takes the life from you, (this one destroys body and spirit) 2) neither gives or takes life force (one can remain here for quite some time), 3) the one that gives more life force to you, with every task--with this one, a person can prosper.
  When our goal and our path are one, we have joy of the journey (enlightenment)
Many blessings to you and all you hold dear,
CG

CG Walters's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/IntoTheMist/~3/372683331/in-wild-or-relationship-symptoms-of.html" rel="nofollow"&gt;In the Wild or a Relationship, The Symptoms of Losing Your Bearings are the Same&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great work, Ari!<br />
I completely agree. There are three types of activity: 1) takes the life from you, (this one destroys body and spirit) 2) neither gives or takes life force (one can remain here for quite some time), 3) the one that gives more life force to you, with every task&#8211;with this one, a person can prosper.<br />
  When our goal and our path are one, we have joy of the journey (enlightenment)<br />
Many blessings to you and all you hold dear,<br />
CG</p>
<p>CG Walters&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/IntoTheMist/~3/372683331/in-wild-or-relationship-symptoms-of.html" rel="nofollow">In the Wild or a Relationship, The Symptoms of Losing Your Bearings are the Same</a></p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/path-over-destination-a-little-known-secret-to-satisfying-life/comment-page-1/#comment-300</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 13:28:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Flora --

Welcome to OBV!  Thanks for checking out my post.  Yes, one of the nice things about being journey-centric is that we remain flexible. Hanging on rigidly to any plan or goal can produce stress and anxiety.  I need to be reminded of that constantly myself, as most of my anxiety comes from worrying whether the outcomes I desire are going to come true or not.  It's much more reliable to base my life on what I'm doing now, instead of somewhere in the future I don't know I will have. 

Thanks for the visit -- keep in touch!

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Flora &#8211;</p>
<p>Welcome to OBV!  Thanks for checking out my post.  Yes, one of the nice things about being journey-centric is that we remain flexible. Hanging on rigidly to any plan or goal can produce stress and anxiety.  I need to be reminded of that constantly myself, as most of my anxiety comes from worrying whether the outcomes I desire are going to come true or not.  It&#8217;s much more reliable to base my life on what I&#8217;m doing now, instead of somewhere in the future I don&#8217;t know I will have. </p>
<p>Thanks for the visit &#8212; keep in touch!</p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Flora Morris Brown, Ph.D.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Flora Morris Brown, Ph.D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 07:41:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for this reminder that fulfillment comes from enjoying the journey or path on the way to our destination. This is very important since sometimes we change our direction along the way, but if we enjoy the journey it won't matter.

Flora Morris Brown, Ph.D.'s last blog post..&lt;a href="http://coloryourlifehappy.com/blog/2008/08/21/why-pursuing-happiness-doesnt-work/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Why Pursuing Happiness Doesn’t Work&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for this reminder that fulfillment comes from enjoying the journey or path on the way to our destination. This is very important since sometimes we change our direction along the way, but if we enjoy the journey it won&#8217;t matter.</p>
<p>Flora Morris Brown, Ph.D.&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://coloryourlifehappy.com/blog/2008/08/21/why-pursuing-happiness-doesnt-work/" rel="nofollow">Why Pursuing Happiness Doesn’t Work</a></p>
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		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/path-over-destination-a-little-known-secret-to-satisfying-life/comment-page-1/#comment-262</link>
		<dc:creator>NBOTW - He Had Me With &#8220;Hello&#8221; &#124; Blogging Without A Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 05:48:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 02:47:03 +0000</pubDate>
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