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	<title>Comments on: The Folly of Being Likable</title>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/the-folly-of-being-likable/#comment-93</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 01:51:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kelly,

Welcome to OBV!  Glad you enjoyed my attempt to be succinct.  We are conditioned to be such people pleasers -- but yet ultimately that&#039;s an unreliable ground to base our self-worth on.  

I look forward to getting to know you --

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelly,</p>
<p>Welcome to OBV!  Glad you enjoyed my attempt to be succinct.  We are conditioned to be such people pleasers &#8212; but yet ultimately that&#8217;s an unreliable ground to base our self-worth on.  </p>
<p>I look forward to getting to know you &#8211;</p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 14:07:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ari,

What a lovely post! I&#039;m always telling my daughter this. Do what&#039;s right because it&#039;s right and that makes you feel good, not because you think you&#039;ll be rewarded by someone else. You said it much better than I do.

I found you through Blogging Without a Blog. Congrats on being her NBOTW, and much luck to you!

Regards,

Kelly

Kelly&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MaximumCustomerExperienceBlog/~3/368886105/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Observing Supercars&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ari,</p>
<p>What a lovely post! I&#8217;m always telling my daughter this. Do what&#8217;s right because it&#8217;s right and that makes you feel good, not because you think you&#8217;ll be rewarded by someone else. You said it much better than I do.</p>
<p>I found you through Blogging Without a Blog. Congrats on being her NBOTW, and much luck to you!</p>
<p>Regards,</p>
<p>Kelly</p>
<p>Kelly&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MaximumCustomerExperienceBlog/~3/368886105/" rel="nofollow">Observing Supercars</a></p>
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