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	<title>Comments on: The Folly of Being Likable</title>
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	<description>Big Picture of Healing and Growth: from Depression to Self Actualization</description>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 01:51:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kelly,

Welcome to OBV!  Glad you enjoyed my attempt to be succinct.  We are conditioned to be such people pleasers -- but yet ultimately that's an unreliable ground to base our self-worth on.  

I look forward to getting to know you --

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelly,</p>
<p>Welcome to OBV!  Glad you enjoyed my attempt to be succinct.  We are conditioned to be such people pleasers &#8212; but yet ultimately that&#8217;s an unreliable ground to base our self-worth on.  </p>
<p>I look forward to getting to know you &#8211;</p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/the-folly-of-being-likable/comment-page-1/#comment-265</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 14:07:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ari,

What a lovely post! I'm always telling my daughter this. Do what's right because it's right and that makes you feel good, not because you think you'll be rewarded by someone else. You said it much better than I do.

I found you through Blogging Without a Blog. Congrats on being her NBOTW, and much luck to you!

Regards,

Kelly

Kelly's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MaximumCustomerExperienceBlog/~3/368886105/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Observing Supercars&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ari,</p>
<p>What a lovely post! I&#8217;m always telling my daughter this. Do what&#8217;s right because it&#8217;s right and that makes you feel good, not because you think you&#8217;ll be rewarded by someone else. You said it much better than I do.</p>
<p>I found you through Blogging Without a Blog. Congrats on being her NBOTW, and much luck to you!</p>
<p>Regards,</p>
<p>Kelly</p>
<p>Kelly&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/MaximumCustomerExperienceBlog/~3/368886105/" rel="nofollow">Observing Supercars</a></p>
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