Note: This is a digest version of a longer essay on preparing yourself for an encounter with your soulmate.
Here are 4 areas in which you can work on to become a person fit, ready and available for an encounter with your soulmate.
- Be Self Sufficient. If you’re looking to fill your loneliness, you’ll only find similar lonely and dependent people. It is not conducive to a healthy collaboration of two independent parties.
- Know Who You Are Seeking. But don’t make a list of what he/she is like. First, visualize how the other person makes you feel. From there, you can make your wish list, made up of must-haves and nice-to-haves. But focus mainly on the feeling — because qualities you thought would give you that feeling may not turn out that way, and vice versa.
- Be Self Confident. You deserve a great person. Believe that, have confidence in that, and don’t settle for someone who doesn’t have all your must-haves.
- Be Open to Change. Be self sufficient, but don’t get too attached to being on your own. Because one become two is a big change. You need to have room in your heart and your life for a whole new set of needs.
To sum up, if you want to be ready to meet your soulmate, then you need to first become a person you’d fall in love with. When you personify the qualities you’re looking for, then you’ll have a large common ground with your ideal partner — thus making you likely to be able to find and form a lasting relationship.
As always, the real work takes place on the inside.