Comments on: How to Get Ready to Meet Your Soulmate (Digest) http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/how-to-get-ready-to-meet-your-soulmate-digest/ Big Picture of Healing and Growth: from Depression to Self Actualization Fri, 04 May 2012 14:01:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ari Koinuma http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/how-to-get-ready-to-meet-your-soulmate-digest/#comment-231 Ari Koinuma Mon, 19 Jan 2009 16:41:18 +0000 http://ourbestversion.com/?p=315#comment-231 Hello, Thanks for the comment, and welcome to OBV! Yes, I think it's logical that when you enhance the common ground between who you are and who you want your soulmate to be, then you increase the chance of encountering that person. I like your clever domain name. :-) Good luck with your blog. ari Hello,

Thanks for the comment, and welcome to OBV! Yes, I think it’s logical that when you enhance the common ground between who you are and who you want your soulmate to be, then you increase the chance of encountering that person.

I like your clever domain name. :-) Good luck with your blog.

ari

]]> By: story between us http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/how-to-get-ready-to-meet-your-soulmate-digest/#comment-230 story between us Fri, 16 Jan 2009 21:48:01 +0000 http://ourbestversion.com/?p=315#comment-230 Hello Ari, i like your thought about finding a soulmate we need to love ourself first, so in our mind we already accept ourself as we are and then it vibrates 'lovely' signal to our surroundings, therefore people see us as lovable person. and this is more even true to our 'significant other' as he/she sees us as 'perfect' and completes him/her... i guess something like that. check out my blog if you wish, i write also about inner peace topic but it still cluttering in my mind and unclear. hope we can share common ground and knowledge.. =) Hello Ari, i like your thought about finding a soulmate we need to love ourself first, so in our mind we already accept ourself as we are and then it vibrates ‘lovely’ signal to our surroundings, therefore people see us as lovable person. and this is more even true to our ‘significant other’ as he/she sees us as ‘perfect’ and completes him/her… i guess something like that.

check out my blog if you wish, i write also about inner peace topic but it still cluttering in my mind and unclear. hope we can share common ground and knowledge.. =)

]]> By: Our Best Version | How to Get Ready to Meet Your Soulmate http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/how-to-get-ready-to-meet-your-soulmate-digest/#comment-229 Our Best Version | How to Get Ready to Meet Your Soulmate Tue, 12 Aug 2008 14:38:54 +0000 http://ourbestversion.com/?p=315#comment-229 [...] to Self Actualization « Hidden Truth about “Begin with End in Mind” How to Get Ready to Meet Your Soulmate (Digest) [...] [...] to Self Actualization « Hidden Truth about “Begin with End in Mind” How to Get Ready to Meet Your Soulmate (Digest) [...]

]]> By: Ari Koinuma http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/how-to-get-ready-to-meet-your-soulmate-digest/#comment-228 Ari Koinuma Tue, 12 Aug 2008 13:15:22 +0000 http://ourbestversion.com/?p=315#comment-228 Hi Shamelle, Welcome to OBV! Thanks for your kind words. You are right about being approachable -- though with this post I was focusing more on the internal work alone. I think being approachable and other good social attitude will naturally come out when a person has prepared him/her in the above 4 areas. I hadn't come across your blog yet. I'm off to check out your stuff! The topic of expectations is something I plan to tackle in the future myself. ari Hi Shamelle,

Welcome to OBV! Thanks for your kind words.

You are right about being approachable — though with this post I was focusing more on the internal work alone. I think being approachable and other good social attitude will naturally come out when a person has prepared him/her in the above 4 areas.

I hadn’t come across your blog yet. I’m off to check out your stuff! The topic of expectations is something I plan to tackle in the future myself.

ari

]]> By: Ari Koinuma http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/how-to-get-ready-to-meet-your-soulmate-digest/#comment-227 Ari Koinuma Tue, 12 Aug 2008 13:10:20 +0000 http://ourbestversion.com/?p=315#comment-227 Robin, Thanks! Exactly -- when you are interdependent, you do things together only because it's better that way, not because you need to. Same action, but big difference in both motivation and what you get out of it. ari Robin,

Thanks! Exactly — when you are interdependent, you do things together only because it’s better that way, not because you need to. Same action, but big difference in both motivation and what you get out of it.

ari

]]> By: Ari Koinuma http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/how-to-get-ready-to-meet-your-soulmate-digest/#comment-226 Ari Koinuma Tue, 12 Aug 2008 13:09:17 +0000 http://ourbestversion.com/?p=315#comment-226 Hello Mr. Bamboo, Thanks! I'd like to re-emphasize the practical benefit of that statement. More than just some cosmic "love yourself" mantra, what it does is that it enhances the potential common ground you'll have with your partner. Relationships are built on common grounds -- the more you have common with the person you'd like to find, the better the chance of connecting to him/her. ari Hello Mr. Bamboo,

Thanks! I’d like to re-emphasize the practical benefit of that statement. More than just some cosmic “love yourself” mantra, what it does is that it enhances the potential common ground you’ll have with your partner. Relationships are built on common grounds — the more you have common with the person you’d like to find, the better the chance of connecting to him/her.

ari

]]> By: Shamelle @ TheEnhanceLife.com http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/how-to-get-ready-to-meet-your-soulmate-digest/#comment-225 Shamelle @ TheEnhanceLife.com Tue, 12 Aug 2008 04:43:04 +0000 http://ourbestversion.com/?p=315#comment-225 I also read the long essay. I like the way you approach the subject. One thing I would like to add is that "Be approachable" In life though it is not as "clear cut" as it is to find the soul mate. ;-0) Shamelle @ TheEnhanceLife.com's last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/EnhanceLife/~3/361566289/expectations-is-it-human-weakness.html" rel="nofollow">Expectations: Is It A Human Weakness?</a> I also read the long essay. I like the way you approach the subject.
One thing I would like to add is that “Be approachable”

In life though it is not as “clear cut” as it is to find the soul mate. ;-0)

Shamelle @ TheEnhanceLife.com’s last blog post..Expectations: Is It A Human Weakness?

]]> By: Robin http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/how-to-get-ready-to-meet-your-soulmate-digest/#comment-224 Robin Tue, 12 Aug 2008 01:01:39 +0000 http://ourbestversion.com/?p=315#comment-224 Hi there Ari - the issue of self-sufficiency is so interesting! I was very self-sufficient when I got together with my partner, and now we do almost everything together as though we are not self-sufficient! But I think we are really, it's just that we choose to work and play together. Robin's last blog post..<a href="http://letsliveforever.net/2008/08/letting-creativity-just-slip-in/" rel="nofollow">Letting Creativity Just Slip In</a> Hi there Ari – the issue of self-sufficiency is so interesting!

I was very self-sufficient when I got together with my partner, and now we do almost everything together as though we are not self-sufficient! But I think we are really, it’s just that we choose to work and play together.

Robin’s last blog post..Letting Creativity Just Slip In

]]> By: Bamboo Forest http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/how-to-get-ready-to-meet-your-soulmate-digest/#comment-223 Bamboo Forest Mon, 11 Aug 2008 22:21:46 +0000 http://ourbestversion.com/?p=315#comment-223 Awesome. "To sum up, if you want to be ready to meet your soulmate, then you need to first become a person you’d fall in love with." I've thought about this a lot. Thanks for reminding me. We are on the same wave length. Great post!!! Bamboo Forest's last blog post..<a href="http://punintended.com/blog/the-frightening-truth-about-bloggers/" rel="nofollow">The Frightening Truth about Bloggers</a> Awesome.

“To sum up, if you want to be ready to meet your soulmate, then you need to first become a person you’d fall in love with.”

I’ve thought about this a lot. Thanks for reminding me.

We are on the same wave length. Great post!!!

Bamboo Forest’s last blog post..The Frightening Truth about Bloggers

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