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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/to-my-fellow-self-improvementpersonal-development-bloggers/#comment-209</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 14:57:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tyson,

Thanks for the pointer.  I&#039;ll look into it. 

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tyson,</p>
<p>Thanks for the pointer.  I&#8217;ll look into it. </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Tyson</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/to-my-fellow-self-improvementpersonal-development-bloggers/#comment-208</link>
		<dc:creator>Tyson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 18:41:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You may want to change your link to the &quot;How to Say Nothing in 500 or Less&quot; article, the original article is no longer at that location this post says it is. This is a common problem we find in SEO, and I recently wrote about it on our blog, which you may find interesting, and also includes an updated link to this great article.

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.engineworks.com/blog/2008/12/05/defend-your-web-and-hard-earned-links/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Portland Search Engine Marketing Blog&lt;/a&gt;

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tyson&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.engineworks.com/blog/2008/12/15/smx-travel-and-tourism-expo-january-28-2009/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;SMX Travel and Tourism Expo January 28, 2009&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You may want to change your link to the &#8220;How to Say Nothing in 500 or Less&#8221; article, the original article is no longer at that location this post says it is. This is a common problem we find in SEO, and I recently wrote about it on our blog, which you may find interesting, and also includes an updated link to this great article.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.engineworks.com/blog/2008/12/05/defend-your-web-and-hard-earned-links/" rel="nofollow">Portland Search Engine Marketing Blog</a></p>
<p><abbr><em>Tyson&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.engineworks.com/blog/2008/12/15/smx-travel-and-tourism-expo-january-28-2009/" rel="nofollow">SMX Travel and Tourism Expo January 28, 2009</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Hypnotherapy Melbourne</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/to-my-fellow-self-improvementpersonal-development-bloggers/#comment-207</link>
		<dc:creator>Hypnotherapy Melbourne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 07:17:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This post has helped break my creativity with a project i&#039;m working on, thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post has helped break my creativity with a project i&#8217;m working on, thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/to-my-fellow-self-improvementpersonal-development-bloggers/#comment-206</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 21:09:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robin,

Hey, thanks for reading my extended rant.  Indeed, your blog is unlike others -- though I&#039;m not sure if I&#039;d put you under self improvement or personal development.  It&#039;s more about philosophy and spirituality, isn&#039;t it?

Well, I am aware that people who are not bloggers read our blogs.  That&#039;s precisely why I wrote that bit -- to remind myself that I&#039;m not writing just for my colleagues, but to the world at large.  It&#039;s easy to forget, because commentors are most often other bloggers.  I don&#039;t want to churn out contents just for the in-crowd.  People who aren&#039;t commenting are probably the ones who I need to reach out to, more. 

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robin,</p>
<p>Hey, thanks for reading my extended rant.  Indeed, your blog is unlike others &#8212; though I&#8217;m not sure if I&#8217;d put you under self improvement or personal development.  It&#8217;s more about philosophy and spirituality, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>Well, I am aware that people who are not bloggers read our blogs.  That&#8217;s precisely why I wrote that bit &#8212; to remind myself that I&#8217;m not writing just for my colleagues, but to the world at large.  It&#8217;s easy to forget, because commentors are most often other bloggers.  I don&#8217;t want to churn out contents just for the in-crowd.  People who aren&#8217;t commenting are probably the ones who I need to reach out to, more. </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/to-my-fellow-self-improvementpersonal-development-bloggers/#comment-205</link>
		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2008 08:31:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there Ari - I like what you say about writing challenging content that may ruffle feathers - I write about a very unusual philosophy, so that gives me hope!

About the self-development / personal growth blogging community - many more people read the blogs than participate in comments - you can see that by comparing the number of subscribers to the number of comments. I don&#039;t think we are just writing for our own closed circles. I think the whole thing is truly amazing - as you said, there is so much out there that there is enough for everyone, and we can choose our own path.

Robin&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://letsliveforever.net/2008/08/letting-creativity-just-slip-in/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Letting Creativity Just Slip In&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there Ari &#8211; I like what you say about writing challenging content that may ruffle feathers &#8211; I write about a very unusual philosophy, so that gives me hope!</p>
<p>About the self-development / personal growth blogging community &#8211; many more people read the blogs than participate in comments &#8211; you can see that by comparing the number of subscribers to the number of comments. I don&#8217;t think we are just writing for our own closed circles. I think the whole thing is truly amazing &#8211; as you said, there is so much out there that there is enough for everyone, and we can choose our own path.</p>
<p>Robin&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://letsliveforever.net/2008/08/letting-creativity-just-slip-in/" rel="nofollow">Letting Creativity Just Slip In</a></p>
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		<title>By: Links Roundup - August 12th 2008</title>
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		<dc:creator>Links Roundup - August 12th 2008</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Aug 2008 10:01:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/to-my-fellow-self-improvementpersonal-development-bloggers/#comment-203</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 03:45:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Bamboo Forest!

Welcome to OBV!  Thanks for reading my lengthy rant.   Glad to hear you got something out of it. 

I just checked out your blog -- you certainly have a very unique and individualized branding set up there.  I admire it greatly -- especially since I&#039;m still struggling with mine.  

I hear you about trendiness of SI/PD bloggers.  As a reader myself, I just long to be engaged, to be drawn into an entry.  This can happen in two ways -- one is to reveal me something I don&#039;t already know, but this is hard, not because I know a lot already, but like Al&#039;s love song example above, a lot has been already said.  The second way is to read something personal.  It makes what&#039;s been said seem more real, more relevant,  more powerful.  Like you said, I think where we need to focus our effort is on our uniqueness, which is built into us, rather than commonality. 

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Bamboo Forest!</p>
<p>Welcome to OBV!  Thanks for reading my lengthy rant.   Glad to hear you got something out of it. </p>
<p>I just checked out your blog &#8212; you certainly have a very unique and individualized branding set up there.  I admire it greatly &#8212; especially since I&#8217;m still struggling with mine.  </p>
<p>I hear you about trendiness of SI/PD bloggers.  As a reader myself, I just long to be engaged, to be drawn into an entry.  This can happen in two ways &#8212; one is to reveal me something I don&#8217;t already know, but this is hard, not because I know a lot already, but like Al&#8217;s love song example above, a lot has been already said.  The second way is to read something personal.  It makes what&#8217;s been said seem more real, more relevant,  more powerful.  Like you said, I think where we need to focus our effort is on our uniqueness, which is built into us, rather than commonality. </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/08/to-my-fellow-self-improvementpersonal-development-bloggers/#comment-202</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 01:43:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Al!

Thanks for reading this lengthy rant!  I think what we can add to what&#039;s already been said is our personal stories, which is obviously our unique contribution.  To expand on the love song example, I think there&#039;s always a way to write a new and fresh love song when you bring in your personal stories.  Even if your story is typical and sounds generic, the heartfelt emotion you bring in just because it&#039;s your own story makes it all the more genuine and touching.  I myself can&#039;t bring myself to write love songs, but that doesn&#039;t mean that I think love songs shouldn&#039;t be written any more.  Just no more generic love songs.  ;-)

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Al!</p>
<p>Thanks for reading this lengthy rant!  I think what we can add to what&#8217;s already been said is our personal stories, which is obviously our unique contribution.  To expand on the love song example, I think there&#8217;s always a way to write a new and fresh love song when you bring in your personal stories.  Even if your story is typical and sounds generic, the heartfelt emotion you bring in just because it&#8217;s your own story makes it all the more genuine and touching.  I myself can&#8217;t bring myself to write love songs, but that doesn&#8217;t mean that I think love songs shouldn&#8217;t be written any more.  Just no more generic love songs.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Bamboo Forest</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bamboo Forest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Aug 2008 19:05:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This was a fun read.

&quot;Remember, nobody else has your point of view.  See something that’s hard to see from everywhere else&quot;

To me, this is often the hallmark of a good blog entry. Well said.

I&#039;m not sure we are the leaders of humanity, but it&#039;s a cool and lively sentiment!

What I personally grow tired of is many SI bloggers always agreeing with the current group think of our society in terms of spirituality. There are a lot of new age concepts that many don&#039;t want to question or even criticize. Some of it just isn&#039;t healthy in my opinion. I will not jump on board with many of the concepts that are rehashed over and over again by SI bloggers. Because I don&#039;t agree with it all. 

I&#039;ll give you one example where I try to bring spiritual topics to the fore that often aren&#039;t. I recently wrote a post about the importance of being happy for others even if what the other person was blessed with is what we ourselves yearn for! Part of spiritual growth, a big part, is being happy for others - not just thinking about ourselves.

That post: http://punintended.com/blog/being-happy-for-others-something-to-truly-aspire-to/

Indeed, in my blogging quest, I will continue to bring up the topics on spirituality that are sometimes overlooked. 

Very well done post. Thanks.

Bamboo Forest&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://punintended.com/blog/8-8-08/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;8-8-08&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was a fun read.</p>
<p>&#8220;Remember, nobody else has your point of view.  See something that’s hard to see from everywhere else&#8221;</p>
<p>To me, this is often the hallmark of a good blog entry. Well said.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure we are the leaders of humanity, but it&#8217;s a cool and lively sentiment!</p>
<p>What I personally grow tired of is many SI bloggers always agreeing with the current group think of our society in terms of spirituality. There are a lot of new age concepts that many don&#8217;t want to question or even criticize. Some of it just isn&#8217;t healthy in my opinion. I will not jump on board with many of the concepts that are rehashed over and over again by SI bloggers. Because I don&#8217;t agree with it all. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll give you one example where I try to bring spiritual topics to the fore that often aren&#8217;t. I recently wrote a post about the importance of being happy for others even if what the other person was blessed with is what we ourselves yearn for! Part of spiritual growth, a big part, is being happy for others &#8211; not just thinking about ourselves.</p>
<p>That post: <a href="http://punintended.com/blog/being-happy-for-others-something-to-truly-aspire-to/" rel="nofollow">http://punintended.com/blog/being-happy-for-others-something-to-truly-aspire-to/</a></p>
<p>Indeed, in my blogging quest, I will continue to bring up the topics on spirituality that are sometimes overlooked. </p>
<p>Very well done post. Thanks.</p>
<p>Bamboo Forest&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://punintended.com/blog/8-8-08/" rel="nofollow">8-8-08</a></p>
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		<title>By: Al at 7P</title>
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		<dc:creator>Al at 7P</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Aug 2008 14:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ari - very thought-provoking post.  Thanks!

I think it&#039;s awesome that you want to keep things fresh and new, rather than echo the same-old same-olds that tend to happen in the blogosphere.

I like how you brought up the idea of patents.  I remember learning that the first director of the US patent office said something to the effect that in a couple of years, there would be no more new ideas and that the patent office may not have any work any more.  That quote was about a hundred years ago.

Same can be said about love songs.  Who can count how many love songs were created in history?  That&#039;s irrelevant, because we&#039;ll always be creating new love songs that sounds fresh and new.  As you wrote in your article, it&#039;s about improving and expanding upon what&#039;s already said, but sometimes it&#039;s also about making it relevant to people who still don&#039;t understand the message.

I also do agree with your original premise - let&#039;s not fall into the trap of preaching to the choir!

Al at 7P&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://7pproductions.com/blog/2008/08/08/the-hero-with-a-thousand-jobs/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Hero with a Thousand Jobs&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ari &#8211; very thought-provoking post.  Thanks!</p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s awesome that you want to keep things fresh and new, rather than echo the same-old same-olds that tend to happen in the blogosphere.</p>
<p>I like how you brought up the idea of patents.  I remember learning that the first director of the US patent office said something to the effect that in a couple of years, there would be no more new ideas and that the patent office may not have any work any more.  That quote was about a hundred years ago.</p>
<p>Same can be said about love songs.  Who can count how many love songs were created in history?  That&#8217;s irrelevant, because we&#8217;ll always be creating new love songs that sounds fresh and new.  As you wrote in your article, it&#8217;s about improving and expanding upon what&#8217;s already said, but sometimes it&#8217;s also about making it relevant to people who still don&#8217;t understand the message.</p>
<p>I also do agree with your original premise &#8211; let&#8217;s not fall into the trap of preaching to the choir!</p>
<p>Al at 7P&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://7pproductions.com/blog/2008/08/08/the-hero-with-a-thousand-jobs/" rel="nofollow">The Hero with a Thousand Jobs</a></p>
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