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		<title>By: Our Best Version &#124; The Power of Peer-Mentoring</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/10/the-only-one-who-can-teach/#comment-618</link>
		<dc:creator>Our Best Version &#124; The Power of Peer-Mentoring</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 00:45:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] truly believe that we are the ones who do the teaching, not the teachers/mentors/coaches/doctors that we pay money to provide us information.  I am [...] </description>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/10/the-only-one-who-can-teach/#comment-617</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 15:52:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Grace,

&gt;We choose what we pay attention to, and what we then do with it is our responsibility.

Wow, that&#039;s a very succinct summary.  Thanks for that.  I may have to quote you.  ;-) 

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Grace,</p>
<p>&gt;We choose what we pay attention to, and what we then do with it is our responsibility.</p>
<p>Wow, that&#8217;s a very succinct summary.  Thanks for that.  I may have to quote you.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Our Best Version &#124; Review: Tom Volkar&#8217;s Authentic Business Discovery Course</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/10/the-only-one-who-can-teach/#comment-616</link>
		<dc:creator>Our Best Version &#124; Review: Tom Volkar&#8217;s Authentic Business Discovery Course</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 01:09:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] has changed us in the coming months. As with any learning opportunities, you do have to put a lot of yourself in to get the most out of it. But the benefit is that this course can really get you started walking [...] </description>
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		<title>By: Grace</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/10/the-only-one-who-can-teach/#comment-615</link>
		<dc:creator>Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 23:45:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ari,

I think it all goes back to the existential principle of choice and responsibility.  We choose what we pay attention to, and what we then do with it is our responsibility.

I&#039;m also firmly of the persuasion that &#039;when the student is ready, the teacher will appear.&#039;  The universe is very obliging to us that way.  :-)

Good post!

G.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Grace&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://facetothesun.com/2008/10/organization-productivity/the-5-minute-brain-shift/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The 5 minute shift that saves brain cells&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ari,</p>
<p>I think it all goes back to the existential principle of choice and responsibility.  We choose what we pay attention to, and what we then do with it is our responsibility.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m also firmly of the persuasion that &#8216;when the student is ready, the teacher will appear.&#8217;  The universe is very obliging to us that way.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Good post!</p>
<p>G.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Grace&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://facetothesun.com/2008/10/organization-productivity/the-5-minute-brain-shift/" rel="nofollow">The 5 minute shift that saves brain cells</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/10/the-only-one-who-can-teach/#comment-614</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 14:56:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Melinda,

Wow, thanks for your kind words -- coming from someone like you, it means much to me.  

Yes, when you&#039;re teaching, isn&#039;t it easy to fall into the trap of &quot;Hey, I&#039;m going to TEACH them great things today!&quot; thinking that you&#039;re the one who holds the switch to turn the learning &quot;on&quot; -- but in reality, everyone gets out what they will out of what you&#039;re presenting.  It&#039;s a balancing act, of course, but hopefully teaching includes a bit of meeting them where students are, and guiding them from there.

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melinda,</p>
<p>Wow, thanks for your kind words &#8212; coming from someone like you, it means much to me.  </p>
<p>Yes, when you&#8217;re teaching, isn&#8217;t it easy to fall into the trap of &#8220;Hey, I&#8217;m going to TEACH them great things today!&#8221; thinking that you&#8217;re the one who holds the switch to turn the learning &#8220;on&#8221; &#8212; but in reality, everyone gets out what they will out of what you&#8217;re presenting.  It&#8217;s a balancing act, of course, but hopefully teaching includes a bit of meeting them where students are, and guiding them from there.</p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Our Best Version &#124; What Must Our Children Know?</title>
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		<dc:creator>Our Best Version &#124; What Must Our Children Know?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 00:07:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Melinda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melinda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 23:06:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ari--I have to tell you again how much I love this blog--and how important I feel it is.  

You know, I am a teacher--I teach university students and when I first started teaching, I thought I should be the &#039;sage on the stage&#039; and *teach* my students the knowledge they needed.  Now, I realize that learning is an interactive process--and the role of the teacher is to faciliate learning.  You are so right--learning is proactive and self-directed; this maximizes the potential to learn to the fullest.  

Thank you for this post--

Melinda

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Melinda&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://blog.melindaville.com/2008/10/01/the-hell-of-heroin-addiction.aspx?ref=rss&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Hell of Heroin Addiction&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ari&#8211;I have to tell you again how much I love this blog&#8211;and how important I feel it is.  </p>
<p>You know, I am a teacher&#8211;I teach university students and when I first started teaching, I thought I should be the &#8216;sage on the stage&#8217; and *teach* my students the knowledge they needed.  Now, I realize that learning is an interactive process&#8211;and the role of the teacher is to faciliate learning.  You are so right&#8211;learning is proactive and self-directed; this maximizes the potential to learn to the fullest.  </p>
<p>Thank you for this post&#8211;</p>
<p>Melinda</p>
<p><abbr><em>Melinda&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://blog.melindaville.com/2008/10/01/the-hell-of-heroin-addiction.aspx?ref=rss" rel="nofollow">The Hell of Heroin Addiction</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/10/the-only-one-who-can-teach/#comment-611</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 14:01:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Jennifer,

Well, thanks!  I am uncomfortable with the word &quot;teacher&quot; but I don&#039;t think it has to do with lack of confidence about the impact I may have.  I feel like I&#039;m still doing too much preaching and spoon-feeding and not enough asking questions and telling stories.  

I do appreciate your affirmation!  I take it to my heart and strive to be even better.  :-)

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Jennifer,</p>
<p>Well, thanks!  I am uncomfortable with the word &#8220;teacher&#8221; but I don&#8217;t think it has to do with lack of confidence about the impact I may have.  I feel like I&#8217;m still doing too much preaching and spoon-feeding and not enough asking questions and telling stories.  </p>
<p>I do appreciate your affirmation!  I take it to my heart and strive to be even better.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/10/the-only-one-who-can-teach/#comment-610</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 13:58:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Evelyn,

Thanks for the follow-up.  

&quot;Core academic studies are no doubt important for they lay the groundwork for all forms of learning to develop.&quot;

Indeed, there is some fundamental knowledge that we all must acquire, isn&#039;t there?  Well, I&#039;ve been asked a very good question about what this fundamental may be -- in the next post I&#039;m going to invite everyone to voice their opinion on this.  I&#039;ll look forward to reading what you have to say. 

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Evelyn,</p>
<p>Thanks for the follow-up.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Core academic studies are no doubt important for they lay the groundwork for all forms of learning to develop.&#8221;</p>
<p>Indeed, there is some fundamental knowledge that we all must acquire, isn&#8217;t there?  Well, I&#8217;ve been asked a very good question about what this fundamental may be &#8212; in the next post I&#8217;m going to invite everyone to voice their opinion on this.  I&#8217;ll look forward to reading what you have to say. </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/10/the-only-one-who-can-teach/#comment-609</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 13:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laurie,

Wow, an excellent point!  What you&#039;re saying totally makes sense.  My wife and I have always been leery of over-praising.  It simply loses its potency. 

What you&#039;re saying is that we need to reinforce positive behaviors, not positive results.  Otherwise, kids will learn to play it safe, just to achieve the praise-able results.  Totally the opposite of what we want to instill in them.  

Laurie, you ought to do a blog, based on your years of experience as a teacher.  Your writing is concise and clear -- perfect for a blog.  I think many teachers and parents need to be know truths like this.  (not to mention it&#039;ll be a great online promotion for your business!) ;-)

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laurie,</p>
<p>Wow, an excellent point!  What you&#8217;re saying totally makes sense.  My wife and I have always been leery of over-praising.  It simply loses its potency. </p>
<p>What you&#8217;re saying is that we need to reinforce positive behaviors, not positive results.  Otherwise, kids will learn to play it safe, just to achieve the praise-able results.  Totally the opposite of what we want to instill in them.  </p>
<p>Laurie, you ought to do a blog, based on your years of experience as a teacher.  Your writing is concise and clear &#8212; perfect for a blog.  I think many teachers and parents need to be know truths like this.  (not to mention it&#8217;ll be a great online promotion for your business!) <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>ari</p>
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