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	<title>Comments on: This Is the Sound of Your Ripping Yourself into Pieces</title>
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	<description>Big Picture of Healing and Growth: from Depression to Self Actualization</description>
	<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 13:50:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/10/this-is-the-sound-of-your-ripping-yourself-into-pieces/comment-page-1/#comment-1053</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 20:15:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Laurie,

Well, that's very inspiring to hear, especially knowing a bit of what you've been through.  It's a bit like loosening a grip that was wrapped around a pole tightly, when you thought you had to hang on.  It feels really odd at first but eventually you realize that's how you're meant to be. 

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Laurie,</p>
<p>Well, that&#8217;s very inspiring to hear, especially knowing a bit of what you&#8217;ve been through.  It&#8217;s a bit like loosening a grip that was wrapped around a pole tightly, when you thought you had to hang on.  It feels really odd at first but eventually you realize that&#8217;s how you&#8217;re meant to be. </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Laurie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laurie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 03:22:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I've been going through a transformation of a sort the last couple of years.  I have been repairing from family warfare and working to find out who I am in my core and what makes me tick.  I spent so much time in a self protection mode now that I don't really need that anymore, I feel like I have been freed from prison.  I am working toward a life of passion and living out loud.  It feels good now, but when I first started working through it, you are right, it was very painful.  But even a butterfly must struggle to emerge from its chrysalis.  If you help it out, it will never fly.  For it is in the struggle where he gains the strength to fly!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been going through a transformation of a sort the last couple of years.  I have been repairing from family warfare and working to find out who I am in my core and what makes me tick.  I spent so much time in a self protection mode now that I don&#8217;t really need that anymore, I feel like I have been freed from prison.  I am working toward a life of passion and living out loud.  It feels good now, but when I first started working through it, you are right, it was very painful.  But even a butterfly must struggle to emerge from its chrysalis.  If you help it out, it will never fly.  For it is in the struggle where he gains the strength to fly!</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/10/this-is-the-sound-of-your-ripping-yourself-into-pieces/comment-page-1/#comment-1047</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 20:33:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Avani,

Thanks for the Stumble!  It means a lot to me, coming from an able writer like you.  

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Avani,</p>
<p>Thanks for the Stumble!  It means a lot to me, coming from an able writer like you.  </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Avani-Mehta</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/10/this-is-the-sound-of-your-ripping-yourself-into-pieces/comment-page-1/#comment-1043</link>
		<dc:creator>Avani-Mehta</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 03:28:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wonderful post Ari. "Know that what worked to get you this far, may not work from here on." - completely agree with this. Going through pain and then healing and growing is a complete process. Getting numb is like a pause button. Since it does exactly that - you get stuck where you are and then you begin to rust. Life should always be on play mode!

&lt;i&gt;This time I won't forget. Am stumbling right away ;)&lt;/i&gt;

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Avani-Mehta&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/avani-mehta/~3/433919579/" rel="nofollow"&gt;2008 Blog Review and 2009 Plans&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful post Ari. &#8220;Know that what worked to get you this far, may not work from here on.&#8221; - completely agree with this. Going through pain and then healing and growing is a complete process. Getting numb is like a pause button. Since it does exactly that - you get stuck where you are and then you begin to rust. Life should always be on play mode!</p>
<p><i>This time I won&#8217;t forget. Am stumbling right away <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </i></p>
<p><abbr><em>Avani-Mehta&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/avani-mehta/~3/433919579/" rel="nofollow">2008 Blog Review and 2009 Plans</a></em></abbr></p>
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