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	<title>Comments on: Self Actualization: Filling a Hole That&#8217;s Shaped Like You</title>
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		<title>By: Gali</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/11/self-actualization-filling-a-hole-thats-shaped-like-you/#comment-1015</link>
		<dc:creator>Gali</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Jan 2011 23:24:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good article. Keep it up. Cheers</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good article. Keep it up. Cheers</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/11/self-actualization-filling-a-hole-thats-shaped-like-you/#comment-1014</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2008 03:49:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Eric,

Welcome to OBV!  Thanks for sharing your story -- sounds like you witnessed some cool things when you were participating in the US First Robotics.  

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Eric,</p>
<p>Welcome to OBV!  Thanks for sharing your story &#8212; sounds like you witnessed some cool things when you were participating in the US First Robotics.  </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Eric</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/11/self-actualization-filling-a-hole-thats-shaped-like-you/#comment-1013</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 11:03:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ari - Thanks for this great sotry about your mother.  He is a story about a young robotics team on the road to self-actualization that your readers may like. http://vitaljourney.org/2008/11/16/robotics-the-closet-conflict-resolution-and-the-journey-to-self-actualization/

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Eric&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://vitaljourney.org/2008/11/18/learning-to-draw-at-age-54-update-9-live-profile-final/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Learning to Draw at Age 54 - Update 9 - Live Profile Final&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ari &#8211; Thanks for this great sotry about your mother.  He is a story about a young robotics team on the road to self-actualization that your readers may like. <a href="http://vitaljourney.org/2008/11/16/robotics-the-closet-conflict-resolution-and-the-journey-to-self-actualization/" rel="nofollow">http://vitaljourney.org/2008/11/16/robotics-the-closet-conflict-resolution-and-the-journey-to-self-actualization/</a></p>
<p><abbr><em>Eric&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://vitaljourney.org/2008/11/18/learning-to-draw-at-age-54-update-9-live-profile-final/" rel="nofollow">Learning to Draw at Age 54 &#8211; Update 9 &#8211; Live Profile Final</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/11/self-actualization-filling-a-hole-thats-shaped-like-you/#comment-1012</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:02:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Or we&#039;ll call it the Gathering of Uncategorizable.  ;-)  Misfits unite!

:-)

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Or we&#8217;ll call it the Gathering of Uncategorizable.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />   Misfits unite!<br />
 <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/11/self-actualization-filling-a-hole-thats-shaped-like-you/#comment-1011</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Robin,

Thanks!  Yes, it&#039;s an interesting era to be alive in.  That said, I suppose every era has its share of innovations. 

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Robin,</p>
<p>Thanks!  Yes, it&#8217;s an interesting era to be alive in.  That said, I suppose every era has its share of innovations. </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Tom Volkar / Delightful Work</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/11/self-actualization-filling-a-hole-thats-shaped-like-you/#comment-1010</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Volkar / Delightful Work</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 12:39:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The Unconventional Convention! I&#039;ll see if Gina wans to handle the details. :) More than being a sight to see can you imagine how the vibes would feel?

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tom Volkar / Delightful Work&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DelightfulWork/~3/450720286/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Does a Business Startup Have To Be Hard?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Unconventional Convention! I&#8217;ll see if Gina wans to handle the details. <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  More than being a sight to see can you imagine how the vibes would feel?</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tom Volkar / Delightful Work&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DelightfulWork/~3/450720286/" rel="nofollow">Does a Business Startup Have To Be Hard?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/11/self-actualization-filling-a-hole-thats-shaped-like-you/#comment-1009</link>
		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 05:08:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ari - what a great story. Your mother has done so well. And I think it&#039;s great the way so many people are using combinations of skills in new and interesting ways. Think of the &quot;careers&#039; that haven&#039;t been invented yet!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Robin&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://letsliveforever.net/2008/11/bloggers-recording-project/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Bloggers’ Recording Project&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ari &#8211; what a great story. Your mother has done so well. And I think it&#8217;s great the way so many people are using combinations of skills in new and interesting ways. Think of the &#8220;careers&#8217; that haven&#8217;t been invented yet!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Robin&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://letsliveforever.net/2008/11/bloggers-recording-project/" rel="nofollow">Bloggers’ Recording Project</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/11/self-actualization-filling-a-hole-thats-shaped-like-you/#comment-1008</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 03:48:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tom,

Well, doing the work you do, I expect you&#039;ve seen a number of souls who have found their &quot;sweet spot.&quot;  What you do is unique and much needed, especially if humanity is to evolve into a species where more of us (in terms of percentage) become fully-realized beings.  I really believe that some sectors of society are poised for that transition.  And we need more people like you. I intend to become one myself.  :-)

Gina sounds like a really cool person.  We should make an industry out of all of us who do unique/weird/unconventional self-created jobs.  We&#039;ll do an industry convention like they do in all other industries.  Wouldn&#039;t that be a sight!  ;-)

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tom,</p>
<p>Well, doing the work you do, I expect you&#8217;ve seen a number of souls who have found their &#8220;sweet spot.&#8221;  What you do is unique and much needed, especially if humanity is to evolve into a species where more of us (in terms of percentage) become fully-realized beings.  I really believe that some sectors of society are poised for that transition.  And we need more people like you. I intend to become one myself.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Gina sounds like a really cool person.  We should make an industry out of all of us who do unique/weird/unconventional self-created jobs.  We&#8217;ll do an industry convention like they do in all other industries.  Wouldn&#8217;t that be a sight!  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/11/self-actualization-filling-a-hole-thats-shaped-like-you/#comment-1007</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 03:41:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Melinda,

Well, the funny thing is that my father was a much more of an intellectual guy, more overtly &quot;intelligent.&quot;  But my mother has always been a woman of singular, uncluttered intuition -- one of those people who can really point out the heart of any issues, without really engaging in long-winded explanations (I musta got that part from my dad.  ;-))  When she emptied her cup of all the unnecessary, hurtful things and just watched her world to see what she could offer it, she immediately came up with the idea for that day-service thing.  My dad couldn&#039;t do that, and died an unrealized man.  My mom, on the other hand, seems to be becoming stronger and bigger with age.  They are both dear to me and role models to me -- my mother, of how to live, and my father, of how to end it properly, even if he died before he could realize his potential.  I got great parts from both of them -- for that, I&#039;m eternally grateful.  

Sounds like you roots were in good soil, too.  Not surprising, I suppose, considering what you&#039;ve been able to overcome.

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Melinda,</p>
<p>Well, the funny thing is that my father was a much more of an intellectual guy, more overtly &#8220;intelligent.&#8221;  But my mother has always been a woman of singular, uncluttered intuition &#8212; one of those people who can really point out the heart of any issues, without really engaging in long-winded explanations (I musta got that part from my dad.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> )  When she emptied her cup of all the unnecessary, hurtful things and just watched her world to see what she could offer it, she immediately came up with the idea for that day-service thing.  My dad couldn&#8217;t do that, and died an unrealized man.  My mom, on the other hand, seems to be becoming stronger and bigger with age.  They are both dear to me and role models to me &#8212; my mother, of how to live, and my father, of how to end it properly, even if he died before he could realize his potential.  I got great parts from both of them &#8212; for that, I&#8217;m eternally grateful.  </p>
<p>Sounds like you roots were in good soil, too.  Not surprising, I suppose, considering what you&#8217;ve been able to overcome.</p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2008/11/self-actualization-filling-a-hole-thats-shaped-like-you/#comment-1006</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 03:34:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Susan,

Glad to hear my mother&#039;s story shed some light for you!  It is hard to grasp unless you really feel it, but you&#039;ll be able to tell when you hit the place where all the threads running through your life start to come together.  It&#039;s an energy surge like no other.  You feel so elated, you&#039;d go &quot;isn&#039;t this too good to be true?&quot;  At least that&#039;s been my experience.  The joy and fulfillment you feel is simply unimaginable when you&#039;re used to a more compromised or partially engaged state. 

You can find such a place!  Just keep shedding baggage, hold on to only essentials.  

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Susan,</p>
<p>Glad to hear my mother&#8217;s story shed some light for you!  It is hard to grasp unless you really feel it, but you&#8217;ll be able to tell when you hit the place where all the threads running through your life start to come together.  It&#8217;s an energy surge like no other.  You feel so elated, you&#8217;d go &#8220;isn&#8217;t this too good to be true?&#8221;  At least that&#8217;s been my experience.  The joy and fulfillment you feel is simply unimaginable when you&#8217;re used to a more compromised or partially engaged state. </p>
<p>You can find such a place!  Just keep shedding baggage, hold on to only essentials.  </p>
<p>ari</p>
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