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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2009/01/how-to-enjoy-challenges-introduction/#comment-1159</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 14:49:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Chris,

I do agree that it&#039;s a part of life&#039;s purpose to know the truth about yourself.  The more deeply we know ourselves, the greater potential we have to truly master our own thoughts, feelings and behaviors.  And those are the only things we can truly control in life. 

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Chris,</p>
<p>I do agree that it&#8217;s a part of life&#8217;s purpose to know the truth about yourself.  The more deeply we know ourselves, the greater potential we have to truly master our own thoughts, feelings and behaviors.  And those are the only things we can truly control in life. </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2009/01/how-to-enjoy-challenges-introduction/#comment-1158</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 14:47:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Karl,

Thanks!  Yes, I made myself learn basics of accounting, and now I can&#039;t seem to get enough of it!  ;) Learning the language of finance is a powerful asset.  I always thought that accounting was boring, but now I wish I majored in it.  ;)

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Karl,</p>
<p>Thanks!  Yes, I made myself learn basics of accounting, and now I can&#8217;t seem to get enough of it!  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Learning the language of finance is a powerful asset.  I always thought that accounting was boring, but now I wish I majored in it.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2009/01/how-to-enjoy-challenges-introduction/#comment-1157</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 14:46:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ross,

Thanks!  I suppose it is a powerful thing -- I didn&#039;t think about it that way -- to me, only a well-challenged life is worth living, so I always thought of challenges as my friends.  But other people may see them as adversaries.  

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ross,</p>
<p>Thanks!  I suppose it is a powerful thing &#8212; I didn&#8217;t think about it that way &#8212; to me, only a well-challenged life is worth living, so I always thought of challenges as my friends.  But other people may see them as adversaries.  </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Our Best Version &#124; Disassociating Fear from Your Challenges</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2009/01/how-to-enjoy-challenges-introduction/#comment-1156</link>
		<dc:creator>Our Best Version &#124; Disassociating Fear from Your Challenges</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 05:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Chris Edgar &#124; Purpose Power Coaching</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2009/01/how-to-enjoy-challenges-introduction/#comment-1155</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Edgar &#124; Purpose Power Coaching</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:57:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for this post.  I liked what you said about uncovering the hidden fear when you faced your challenge.  Recently I&#039;ve been wondering whether the real purpose of my life is to know the truth about myself, and seeing living this way makes experiences like the one you described seem valuable.  -- Best, Chris

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Chris Edgar &#124; Purpose Power Coaching&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=202&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Productivity From Within — New E-Book!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for this post.  I liked what you said about uncovering the hidden fear when you faced your challenge.  Recently I&#8217;ve been wondering whether the real purpose of my life is to know the truth about myself, and seeing living this way makes experiences like the one you described seem valuable.  &#8212; Best, Chris</p>
<p><abbr><em>Chris Edgar | Purpose Power Coaching&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=202" rel="nofollow">Productivity From Within — New E-Book!</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Karl Staib - Work Happy Now</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2009/01/how-to-enjoy-challenges-introduction/#comment-1154</link>
		<dc:creator>Karl Staib - Work Happy Now</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:51:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Life can really smack us down if we let it. That&#039;s the key - using that smack down to challenge ourselves to be even better. I hope that you took that accounting problem and kicked it right in the butt. You can&#039;t let anything get in the way of your dream.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Karl Staib - Work Happy Now&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.workhappynow.com/2009/01/how-google-creates-great-atmosphere/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How Does Google Create a Great Atmosphere?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life can really smack us down if we let it. That&#8217;s the key &#8211; using that smack down to challenge ourselves to be even better. I hope that you took that accounting problem and kicked it right in the butt. You can&#8217;t let anything get in the way of your dream.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Karl Staib &#8211; Work Happy Now&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.workhappynow.com/2009/01/how-google-creates-great-atmosphere/" rel="nofollow">How Does Google Create a Great Atmosphere?</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Ross</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2009/01/how-to-enjoy-challenges-introduction/#comment-1153</link>
		<dc:creator>Ross</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:14:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Ari....

Wow, turning challenges into motivators - what a powerful thing.  When you can apply this to areas of your life you will indeed go far.  People who see only disappointment and failure never really get anywhere!

Good luck with your business venture, and truth be told - you never know unless you give it a go!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Ross&#180;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/willitchangeyou/mrzx/~3/504434412/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Make money doing what you love&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Ari&#8230;.</p>
<p>Wow, turning challenges into motivators &#8211; what a powerful thing.  When you can apply this to areas of your life you will indeed go far.  People who see only disappointment and failure never really get anywhere!</p>
<p>Good luck with your business venture, and truth be told &#8211; you never know unless you give it a go!</p>
<p><abbr><em>Ross&#180;s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/willitchangeyou/mrzx/~3/504434412/" rel="nofollow">Make money doing what you love</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2009/01/how-to-enjoy-challenges-introduction/#comment-1152</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:47:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jarrod,

&quot;It is only when we re-interpret that we make a real problem for ourselves&quot;

Exactly.  Sometimes there are certain scripts at work that force us to interpret things in certain ways.  At least I do.  I can rationally interpret challenges as growth opportunities, but yet emotionally feel very threatened.  And that separation can be a real drag.  So I&#039;m going to look at various things that may cause this to happen, to see how we can rewrite the script. 

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jarrod,</p>
<p>&#8220;It is only when we re-interpret that we make a real problem for ourselves&#8221;</p>
<p>Exactly.  Sometimes there are certain scripts at work that force us to interpret things in certain ways.  At least I do.  I can rationally interpret challenges as growth opportunities, but yet emotionally feel very threatened.  And that separation can be a real drag.  So I&#8217;m going to look at various things that may cause this to happen, to see how we can rewrite the script. </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2009/01/how-to-enjoy-challenges-introduction/#comment-1151</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lori!

Yes, life can seem deflating to perfectionists.  ;-)  But it&#039;ll feel deflating until they learn a lesson -- not to be perfectionists!  ;-)  Like you said, we humans can be pretty resilient -- and therein lies the step forward. 

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lori!</p>
<p>Yes, life can seem deflating to perfectionists.  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />   But it&#8217;ll feel deflating until they learn a lesson &#8212; not to be perfectionists!  <img src='http://ourbestversion.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />   Like you said, we humans can be pretty resilient &#8212; and therein lies the step forward. </p>
<p>ari</p>
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		<title>By: Ari Koinuma</title>
		<link>http://ourbestversion.com/2009/01/how-to-enjoy-challenges-introduction/#comment-1150</link>
		<dc:creator>Ari Koinuma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 16:42:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy New Year to you, Lovelyn!  
&quot;I’ve found that once I’ve overcome the deflating challenges, I’ve usually learned more from them than I ever thought I would.&quot;  You hit the nail on the head there.  Some challenges feel deflating, and there&#039;s a reason -- I&#039;ll explore more in the upcoming installments. 

ari</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy New Year to you, Lovelyn!<br />
&#8220;I’ve found that once I’ve overcome the deflating challenges, I’ve usually learned more from them than I ever thought I would.&#8221;  You hit the nail on the head there.  Some challenges feel deflating, and there&#8217;s a reason &#8212; I&#8217;ll explore more in the upcoming installments. </p>
<p>ari</p>
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