Living above one’s means is surprisingly easy. I’ve been there, done that — it just takes some time of not facing the reality, just conveniently avoiding to check the books. I received the following testimonial from Katie Lupo about the … Continue reading
Did someone hurt your feelings? Do you get annoyed or frustrated? We all do from time to time — I certainly do, and while I keep telling myself not to judge others too hastily, I still find myself full of … Continue reading
Judgment hurts. This is a lesson I’ve been reminded of in multiple ways recently. In any relationship, the kind and loving thing to do is to meet the other person where s/he is. Let me illustrate that point, with a … Continue reading
I’d like to banish those words from my dictionary. Problems are opportunities. Mistakes are lessons. Problems arise because something needs to be solved. That solution has the potential to benefit you and everyone around you from that point on. I’m … Continue reading
One of the key lessons that stuck out from Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz was the truth that we only take as much abuse as what we do to ourselves. In the other words, I am my own … Continue reading
First the definitions: “Hard” Work: work that is done at such a pace, amount, or intensity that it strains you. “Good” Work: work that is self-rewarding. You have much higher tolerance for this work. Even when you do it at … Continue reading
Now I understand why, and who I am fighting against. Knowing the enemy is critical in a battle, and Steven Pressfield does a succinct job of identifying him. This is a great book for anybody serous about their artistic/creative pursuit, … Continue reading
Here’s a little lesson I learned that’s helped me approach things with more hope and brighter outlook. What takes time doesn’t mean it’s difficult. I used to think that getting better on my guitar is difficult. Playing the guitar is … Continue reading
Here’s a question regarding anxiety issues in a family from Kari, a woman in her 20s. I’ve been reading through your advice about breaking habits, low self-esteem, etc and am curious to hear your opinion of what I view as … Continue reading
This final installment of the series “How to Enjoy Challenges” examines how a challenge can bring the best in a person — or the worst. By diligently removing threats you associate with challenges, anyone can become a brave soul who … Continue reading
