Archive for the 'Mental Health' Category
The thing that’s almost as hard as suffering a clinical depression is when you have a loved one who suffers from it.
While there are resources available for those suffering from depression, there is less support for those who have to care for them. So here are some pointers for those who have loved ones [...]
October 24th, 2008 | Posted in Best Practices, Know Yourself, Mental Health, depression, healing | 38 Comments
Depression is a cruel state. It robs you of an ability to have hope or feel joy. You stop being you — you become a lesser version, the one that doesn’t remember the normal you.
Here are some realizations that I gained through my own healing experience. Knowing and applying this will help [...]
October 22nd, 2008 | Posted in Best Practices, Mental Health, Short Posts, depression, healing | 40 Comments
Recently, I received a question from Stacey about how a marriage can recover after her depression traumatized both her and her husband.
Stacey writes:
I have a history of depression. I have been treated through counseling and medication a number of times, but the weakness is still there.
For over four years I was in a committed relationship, [...]
October 12th, 2008 | Posted in Mental Health, Reader Question, Romantic Relationships, depression, healing | 10 Comments
Just as I wrote my big essay on self-esteem, I encountered an event that triggered a discovery and healing of where my own self-esteem was damaged. It’s a rather personal tale, but let me use it to illustrate how you can mend the foundation of your mind.
My Son’s Fall
A few days ago, I was [...]
July 11th, 2008 | Posted in Ari's Personal Stories, Dissecting Problems, Mental Health | 4 Comments
In this extended essay on self-esteem, you will get a comprehensive picture of what it is, how it gets compromised, and how you can restore it. Low self-esteem is the underlying cause for all problems in your life — understanding this will pave the way to true and complete healing and unlocking your true [...]
July 9th, 2008 | Posted in Dissecting Problems, Happiness, Know Yourself, Mental Health | 19 Comments
In Japan, we have a phrase called “Seishin Nenrei.”
It means: “mental age.”
It simply means that our mental age may be different from our physical age.
I’m surprised that it’s not a widely accepted idea in US. It may be because of my cultural background, but the concept seems very obvious to me.
I’m sure you’ve seen “adult [...]
June 23rd, 2008 | Posted in Dissecting Problems, Know Yourself, Mental Health | No Comments
It’s hard to know what it’s like to be depressed, until you experience it.
Because it’s really not a state within the range of our normal existence.
It’s your mind getting overloaded with stress and pain, so much that it is not capable of its normal, innate functions.
Imagine a carriage, or a buggy, with a load way [...]
June 19th, 2008 | Posted in Ari's Personal Stories, Mental Health | No Comments